Navigating Doctor Visits with Babies and Toddlers

Visiting the doctor with your baby or toddler can be a daunting experience, especially for new parents. From deciding whether to see a pediatrician or a general practitioner (GP) for every ailment, to calming a nervous toddler, there are many aspects to consider. Let’s explore some practical tips and insights to make your visits smoother and less stressful for both you and your little one.

Paediatrician vs. GP

Paediatrician or GP: What’s the Difference?

Paediatricians specialise in the medical care of infants, children, and adolescents, while GPs provide general healthcare for patients of all ages. Paediatricians are often more experienced with childhood illnesses and developmental issues, whereas GPs can offer broader family healthcare services.

When to See a Paediatrician

Routine checkups: Newborn baby visits (usually 6 weeks, 6 months and 1 year) and vaccinations.

Developmental concerns: Issues related to growth, behaviour, or development.

Specialised care: Chronic conditions, congenital issues, or more complex medical problems.

When to See a GP

Minor illnesses: Common colds, flu, minor injuries.

Family health: When you prefer a single doctor for the entire family’s healthcare.

Availability: Sometimes it’s just easier and faster to get an appointment with a GP.

Choosing the Right Paediatrician 

Factors to Consider

Location: Choose a doctor whose office is conveniently located, as there will be many times you need to see your doctor ASAP and don’t want to have to travel far.

Experience: Look for doctors with extensive experience in paediatric care, maybe even one who is recommended by friends or family, or even your own healthcare provider.

Compatibility: Ensure the doctor’s communication style and approach align with your preferences. As long as you feel safe and happy around your doctor, your little one will reflect your attitude.

Office Environment: A child-friendly office can make visits more comfortable and less daunting for your little one.

Questions to Ask

What are the office hours and how do they handle after-hours emergencies?

Are they willing to share their phone number for emergencies?

What is the doctor’s approach to vaccinations and other preventative care?

How does the office handle sick visits and last-minute appointments?

What are their thoughts on prescribing antibiotics?

Preparing for the Visit

• Scheduling the Appointment

Choose a time when your baby is usually well-rested and not hungry. Early morning or right after a nap is usually ideal.

• What to Bring

Any previous medical records and a list of up to date vaccinations.

A favourite toy or blanket to help your child feel secure.

A dummy or bottle to help soothe them if they are nervous, and especially for after vaccines.

Their favourite snacks and water to keep your child calm and occupied if the doctor is running late.

• Talking to Your Child

Explain the visit in simple terms, emphasising that the doctor is there to help make us feel better. Reading books, watching videos about doctor visits, and even role playing with toys can also be helpful for nervous toddlers.

Calming a Nervous Toddler

Techniques to Soothe Anxiety

Your child can pick up on your emotions, so stay calm and positive.

Distract them with toys, books, or yes, even electronic devices (sometimes it really is just necessary).

Hold your child on your lap for the appointment, speak in a soothing voice (even to the doctor), and offer plenty of reassurance.

During the Visit

Let your toddler hold the stethoscope or help the doctor with small tasks.

Ask questions and include your little one, ‘what does this do?’, ‘what is the best part about being a doctor?’.

And finally, praise your child for their bravery and cooperation. Hopefully they will even earn themselves a  lollipop!

Doctor visits with babies and toddlers doesn’t have to be stressful. By choosing the right doctor, preparing adequately, and using calming techniques, you can make the experience more comfortable for both you and your little one. 

Remember, your Paediatrician or GP is a partner in your child’s health, so don’t hesitate to reach out with any questions or concerns.